“How I Learned to Drive” by Paula Vogel, a text often referred to as the “Lolita” written from a female perspective – the character of grown-up Li’l Bit, who reminisces about her childhood. The relationship between the two characters, Li’l Bit and her uncle, is filled with ambivalence: love, tenderness, curiosity, teaching, trust, authority formation, mistakes, and consequently: boundary crossing, grooming, and harm, leading to a point of self-destruction.